Anxiety and the American Teenager

Original article and all rights go to the author in this New York Times Magazine article 

I was just introduced to this article, and it really hit home.  Anxiety is everywhere!!   Many people try to blame the world of smartphones and electronics, but the issue has always been around, it’s just that today’s technology has brought it out into a more open arena.

I have copied a few major parts of the article in this post, but I am also providing the link to the original post so that you may visit their site and read the rest.   Teachers, foster parents, counselors, really anyone who works with children needs to read this.

Why Are More American Teenagers Than Ever Suffering From Severe Anxiety?

Parents, therapists and schools are struggling to figure out whether helping anxious teenagers means protecting them or pushing them to face their fears.

***It’s tempting to blame helicopter parents with their own anxiety issues for that pressure (and therapists who work with teenagers sometimes do), but several anxiety experts pointed to an important shift in the last few years. “Teenagers used to tell me, ‘I just need to get my parents off my back,’ ” recalls Madeline Levine, a founder of Challenge Success, a Stanford University-affiliated nonprofit that works on school reform and student well-being. “Now so many students have internalized the anxiety. The kids at this point are driving themselves crazy.”

***Though there are cultural differences in how this kind of anguish manifests, there’s considerable overlap among teenagers from different backgrounds. Many are anxious about school and how friends or teachers perceive them. Some obsess about family conflicts. Teenagers with OCD tend to worry excessively about what foods they should eat, diseases they might contract or whatever happens to be in the news that week. Stephanie Eken, a psychiatrist and the regional medical director for Rogers Behavioral Health, which runs several teenage-anxiety outpatient programs across the country and an inpatient program in Wisconsin, told me that in the last few years she has heard more kids than ever worry about terrorism. “They wonder about whether it’s safe to go to a movie theater,” she said.

For the complete article please click this link

Never Too Little or Too Late

 

So many people want to help, but many just don’t know how, or think that only large donations of items or money will be accepted- but that’s so not true!
My amazing friend had a get together this weekend and asked everyone to bring something for the girls ranch. Y’all she is in the DFW area, not even close to Houston, but she and her friends wanted to help us get ready for the girls that will be here soon.
Time, items, or even a $5 donation will add up!
Never underestimate the power of kindness and blessing others.
#humbled #blessed
 

 

The Magic Bond

There’s something about horses and girls.   A bond that’s unspoken.  A trust, a love, a magic bond.   Something even more magical happens when a horse is paired with a child from the foster care system.   Here’s a story you need to watch, and it’s a great example of why we’re so excited to see the ranch in Houston open soon!! 

Watch this –> WFAA news story