The Email

The Pesina Family


A story of lives changed through adoption- by Daphne Pesina 

Original post found HERE.

The Email

Last fall both my husband and I received an email from our adoption agency. The email started something like this, “I know it is five, but we thought of you guys. Let us know as soon as possible.” Attached was a file with the names, ages, and a small blurb about each child. I sat frozen, staring at the monitor at my teacher desk in my classroom while the high school teenagers carried out their task of discussing plot elements of Ray Bradbury’s There Will Come Soft Rains.

Five? FIVE? Ha! Right. I was stretching it trying to convince Robert to consider three. There was no way he would even think about five. I closed the email, refocused, stood and continued on with my daily duties as a high school English teacher.
As I was driving on the commute home, Robert asked me what I thought about the email. “What email?” I asked sincerely.
“From Allison.” He looked at me in surprise. “About the kids.”
“Oh. Yeah. I saw it.”
“What did you think?”
“Robert, you won’t even consider three, much less five. I didn’t read it.”
“You didn’t?”
And for a moment, I wondered why I didn’t read it. “Will you read it to me?”
After Robert read the email and description of the children, we discussed the impossible. Our concerns with adopting a sibling group were normal; we wanted to provide for our children and give them opportunities to be successful academically, spiritually, athletically, musically, and/or any way that would be specifically beneficial to their needs and/or talents. We also needed a bigger vehicle no matter how many children we agreed on adopting.
Were we really considering five kids?
At that moment a heavy weigh+t of Catholic guilt came upon me. Okay, maybe it was the Holy Spirit. Regardless, there was one question that kept surfacing: Who were we to question God?
What if God’s plan was for these to be our children? What if we said no? I shared my thoughts with Robert. My husband was experiencing the same calling. Suddenly, we both were very humbled. We didn’t know how we would be able to provide for them, we didn’t know how we would be able to transport them, and we didn’t know how God thought we were ready for five kids. All we knew at that moment in our Monte Carlo on our commute home was that we were suppose to say yes to God. All we knew was to trust in God to provide for our needs. His grace knows no bounds.
***Daphne Pesina is a high school English teacher in Texas.  She will be adding more family adventures to her blog soon.***

Amazing Thanksgiving Weekend

Eagle Scout helps kids in care

You are going to love this story from Thanksgiving weekend!

Over the weekend, I was honored to attend a ceremony honoring one of my favorite kids, Davis Spangler, from Allen, Texas. I love stories of kids looking after and having a heart for other kids less fortunate.

Over two and a half years ago, I was contacted by this young man. He had been researching projects for his Eagle Scout honor. The project that caught his eye was a story in the media about foster children moving from place to place carrying all they had in trash bags. I agreed to meet Davis and his Dad. Along for the ride, were my two oldest grandchildren that were about the same age as Davis.

I remember instantly liking how passionately he felt the need to do something to help these kids! He asked if I would sponsor him on behalf of Azleway. His goal was to collect as much luggage, duffel bags, and backpacks as he could for his project and give them to the kids at Azleway. I do not think either of us knew what a daunting task that would become. Over the two year period, he would sometimes get frustrated because he had not found as much luggage as he wanted. I am sure there were times when he would have liked to quit. Thankfully, he did not quit! I received an email from Davis requesting a date for the delivery of the luggage.

I still remember when he and his Dad delivered it all to Azleway. I met them at Azleway’s Grand Prairie location. I could not believe the staggering amount of luggage packed into luggage that he had collected. That luggage did not last long in that warehouse. The minute the word was out……the luggage was moved to Tyler and handed out to the kids.

On October 21, 2016, I received an email from Davis asking if I remembered him. I replied I could never forget that sweet face. Along with the email, was an invitation for his Eagle Scout Court of Honor Ceremony to be held at his church in Allen, Texas. I replied I would be honored to attend. When I arrived, I could not believe he was a head taller than me, and was the more mature and accomplished version of the Davis I had met in our first meeting. I awarded him a pin on behalf of Danny Tiblet’s Foster Care Movement! If you look closely to the right of his Eagle Scout badge, you will see the pin. I don’t know of a better kid or a more deserving kid for this award!

The ceremony was filled with emotion. His family had travelled from all over the country to see Davis receive his award and be called to the “Eagle’s Nest” forever and all time. By the way, his Dad is an Eagle Scout as well. I learned during the ceremony that less than two percent of all scouts become Eagle Scouts. Letters from President George Bush, his Dad, and many other dignitaries from all over the country sent certificates and letters of blessings. Quite a way to spend a night during Thanksgiving!
Azleway thanks you, Davis! The kids thank you! And, I thank you so much for all you have done on behalf of this nonprofit. I am going to keep my eye on this kid! He has a great future in store for him!
Sharon Roubinek

Vice Chairperson,  Azleway

Founder/CEO-  Imagine Foundation For Kids